Most couples prefer kissing and cuddling to talking about money projects.<\/p>\n
Talking about money with your partner is considered unromantic. You will be seen as someone who puts money above love<\/a>. But this doesn\u2019t have to be the case.<\/p>\n Have you lived through this?<\/p>\n You are in love and you want to talk to each other about everything and everyone, but not about money? Because that really kills the romance?<\/p>\n Or have you moved in with your partner and been surprised to find that you function very differently when it comes to money and it stresses you out?<\/p>\n Maybe you have been together for a long time and have a bigger income gap. This can even make one of you feel inferior \u2014 especially if you don\u2019t talk about it.<\/p>\n Why do we often find it so difficult in partnerships to talk openly about money. This has a lot to do with dreams, goals, and the future.<\/p>\n Because depending on what you want for your future, you behave today in relation to your money. Well, ideally \u2014 let\u2019s assume that <\/a>you have given some thought to your dreams and goals.<\/p>\n If you have these 5 money problems in your love relationship, fix them right now so that your marriage doesn\u2019t end in divorce:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Phrases like \u201cYou don\u2019t talk about money\u201d or \u201cLove shouldn\u2019t be about money<\/a>\u201d should be banished from your mind, if you haven\u2019t already.<\/p>\n Especially in a partnership where you trust each other and tell each other everything, the subject of money should not be taboo.<\/p>\n Quite the opposite. Couples who talk openly about money and finances act as equals. And after all, the subject of finances is always connected with the future, joint plans, and dreams \u2014 so romantic.<\/p>\n It is important to change your way of thinking about money<\/a> in partnership and family planning and also to make demands.<\/p>\n Raising children and taking care of the house is worth at least as much as any other job. It is important that you also don\u2019t lose sight of your own financial planning in this case.<\/p>\n Plan together how you can find the balance. Write it down. And above all: find provisions in case the partnership or marriage ends.<\/p>\n It\u2019s normal not to know everything, and it\u2019s good to learn from each other. Talk about it openly, and rules of conversation can also help so that there are no arguments or disappointments.<\/p>\n The topic of money is much more emotional than it seems at first glance. Couples usually avoid these conversations because they are afraid of arguments. But they are part of it, and as a couple, you grow from it.<\/p>\n The issue of the income gap is sometimes an obstacle, but the same applies here: you are a team. You can find solutions, but they do not come alone.<\/p>\n An account for your joint expenses, such as rent, groceries, or joint insurance, makes a lot of things easier. And it is really useful.<\/p>\n But beware: with a joint account.<\/a><\/p>\n Each of you always automatically puts in half the money. In this respect, you should keep your reserves or larger sums of bonus payments or similar in your individual accounts. This makes it easier to understand in case of separation, avoids tax problems, and, in case of doubt, litigation.<\/p>\n So, let\u2019s go: for you to really comply, set a date for the money right now.<\/p>\n Cheerfully with a delicious meal, this lowers the hurdle. And then just get started.<\/p>\n Discuss what money means to you, how you envision handling your finances together, and your planning. It really makes you want to tackle these topics together, doesn\u2019t it? You can only win!<\/p>\n1 \u2014 Couples who avoid sharing money bills at the romantic dinner<\/strong><\/h2>\n
2 \u2014 When your wife doesn\u2019t like to pay herself first but loves the credit card<\/strong><\/h2>\n
3 \u2014 When neither of you has a clue about finances and investments<\/strong><\/h2>\n
4 \u2014 Couples who do not create a third account to put money into<\/strong><\/h2>\n
5 \u2014 Couples who don\u2019t ask each other: what are you going to do with the money<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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